Father is always a number in a family. Again, it doesn’t mean we don’t love him, the way we show loves to everybody is completely different. The love that you give to mother is totally different from the love that you give to father, and also the love that you give to somebody else. Perhaps father is always the second after mother for some people, but for me he is another hero and treasure in my life, losing him means losing another hope.
Maybe he is not so close with us, due to the fact that he has to work round the clock to earn so much money to his family; maybe he shows the ignorance at home, just because he is so worn out to understand about household stuff instead of thinking how to get a better education for his kids. When he turns out to be old, no body cares on him. Even thought out there he keeps fighting to find something to eat for his family, definitely keeps awake all night long attempting to find a way how to make their family fully of their necessary.
My father was a principal in a private school in small town. Nobody knows that he has physically struggled and profoundly sacrificed to build a magnificent family. He not only has helped out his family a bright future but also the people out there who have not had so much money that immediately need to be helped. Because he was an ex principal he wholly dedicated his life to educate and assist people. He helped deprived people who were so passionate to get education. The intention to help other can be seen from his enthusiasm in a way when he aids all people and loosen people’s problem. That is why it makes me so blissful to be his father.Definitely, he is not such a selfish person in this transient world by thinking and doing individually by his own, but also he tries to think the problem of the other people by helping as much as he can.
When he turns out to be old, anything looks so blur in his eyes, anything look so insipid when he is not strong enough to earn so much money to us, and when he is so weak to talk. Deep down inside I just want to hug him and wipe out his sweat, for real. I am from nothing being anything due to him. I am stupid being smart due to him. How could I can be away from the man that have ever taught me being a man.
In a time when he can not do anything to his family, I just want to cheer him up by doing that he has done to his family.